Dear Crazy Legs,
I am twenty-one year old lady who has had a rough life. I was involved with a man who was in a street gang. I was pregnant at twenty. The man that I was involved with was ready to leave the gang and marry me, but he was murdered. I did give birth to a baby boy. My question is, do you think I’m ready to get involved in a relationship?
I have to applaud your courage and confidence. It sounds like you have been through a lot in your life. It has been a year and only natural you might be asking, are you ready?
Don’t forget, that little boy is a miracle. He is part of you and needs you. If you are writing me as Lady in Pain, maybe you don’t believe you’re ready for a relationship? Maybe you should try some form of dance or a community theater?